In the recent busy build up to Christmas, I’d had a particularly task-filled day, and at 6pm took a few minutes to rest and catch up on social media stuff. The first message I opened was a request to help move some furniture and household items from a friend’s mother’s flat, to a homeless chap who was just moving into accommodation. It took approximately 2.5 seconds to dawn on me, that logically now was the best time. I was grumpy for those 2.5 seconds and spent the next half a minute coaching myself to dissipate this grumpiness(!)
So, after some disassembling, driving, lugging and reassembling, I was confronted with the impact of these tasks, when the chap looked around his place and exclaimed “Now this doesn’t feel like accommodation, it feels like home!”
I spend the rest of the evening resolving to never allow the feeling of grumpiness to enter me again, and continue my quest to search for my elusive altruistic self!
This personal experience reminded me of discussions in the volunteering community a few years back, where the notion that volunteering stems from altruistic motives, came under attack from prominent practitioners and writers in the sector.
Back in 2005, in the publication The 21st Century Volunteer, Elisha Evans and Joe Saxton, 2005 highlighted a number of interviewees were keen to point out “a worrying swing towards catering for the harder motivations and associated incentives for volunteering”. Rob Jackson (then with Volunteering England) suggested these motivations have always been there, and that it is simply becoming more acceptable for the 21st Century Volunteer to express them, stating “Egoism is gaining equal weight to altruism but, as with anything new, the former is getting a higher profile because it is being expressed more than before. This will balance out in time.”
Well, that was over 20 years ago, so has enough time passed since, to balance this out??
The writers concluded that the volunteering sector needs to harness ‘selfish altruism’, explaining that “by tuning into volunteers’ changing desires and expectations; appreciating the many benefits of volunteering (soft, hard and altruistic)…volunteer managers can begin to develop the volunteering product in a way that does it, and the organisation’s cause, justice.”
In 2008, the Chairman of the Association of Volunteer Managers, John Ramsey, stated that he was “not a believer in the existence of altruistic volunteering, of giving with no regards for yourself.” His view was that “the volunteering relationship is not a one-way altruistic pathway, but a two-way reciprocal relationship” (AVM 2008). A similar theme echoed by Dr Peter Ngatia who argues that “volunteerism built on altruism… remains episodic, short-lived and hence not sustainable” (The Guardian 2010).
Meeting the needs of the ‘selfish volunteer’ became more prevalent in articles and discussions. For example, in 2013, NFPResearch conducted the roundtable discussion, ‘Should we be doing more to support the selfish volunteer?’
These discussions tended to result in folks wrestling with the question “Should we incentivise volunteering?” famously debated by Rob Jackson and Susan Ellis back in 2014 (each taking a side, to help with the discussion).
More recently, many writers have recognised this ‘selfish altruism’ paradox.
In 2023, Karen Knight makes the case for selfish volunteers and concluded “So, let’s embrace our selfish volunteers; they can be a powerful force for good!”.
Paul Hefron, in 2024 concludes that “by understanding and accepting the multifaceted motivations behind volunteerism, we can foster a more robust, realistic, and ultimately more effective approach to encouraging altruistic behaviour”
It got me thinking that we might be missing the point in asking the question “Should we incentivise volunteering?”, so I thought I’d explore this again, using the AI resources now available to us, because I’m finding that using AI appears to be largely about working out what is the right question to ask.
Here are the responses to some initial questions:
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The “altruism is dead” argument misunderstands what altruism actually is.
Altruism isn’t Martyrdom, self-erasure or purity of motive.
Altruism is choosing to benefit others, even when you didn’t have to, even when you could have chosen yourself instead.
By that definition, volunteering is full of altruism.
Volunteering is a cultural counterweight to transactional society.
We live in a world where everything is monetised, measured, and optimised. Volunteering is one of the last spaces where people act outside market logic.
Even if motives are mixed, the existence of volunteering proves altruism isn’t dead. If altruism were dead, volunteering wouldn’t exist at all.
Volunteering doesn’t require perfect people — it creates better people.
It’s not a museum of altruism. It’s a workshop for it.
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This changes the question we need to ask. Something like: “How might we develop our volunteering programmes and volunteer management processes in a way that better celebrates altruism?”
Btw, if you fancy a thought-provoking activity, pop that question into your favourite AI engine, and drill down on some of the things that interest you.
